On Being
The alarm sounded
But I was awake already
My biological clock prodding
There is so much to do, and its 4:30.
An early morning
A run that invigorates
Shower, shave, breakfast
Now the real doing must begin.
I do the commute
I do the list of emails
Meetings and calls are made
Doing it all then doing it again.
I’ve been give the ultimate compliment
My “say” to “do” ratio is nearly 100%
Some like to talk, I prefer to get things done
A good day is a busy day of doing and doing.
Is there a place for being
And what is that anyway?
Is it a state of no next task?
Or perhaps accepting that I am okay?
There is beauty in being
A peacefulness that we see
A lot is actually accomplished
Perhaps even healed of me
We value the doing
We’ve short changed being
I am tempted to do being
I am sure there is a class for that
I have begun to accept
Both doing and being
Valuing both equally
Albeit not always
I think it is possible to do and be
I can have a conversation and be
I can run and experience being
I can retreat and purposely be
Mindfulness as a practice
Yoga, meditation, breathwork
These are how being is done
But ultimately I want to simply be
To see beauty around me
To smell the fragrance of rain
To hear the distant bird
To taste and savor each bite
To feel to powerfully feel
In my being I am receiving
In my being I am experiencing
In my being I am sensing
The wonder of life
I wrote this poem as I felt the tension of doing versus being. Perhaps this is a bit of a cop out but I landed on the fact that I can and must do both and even better - do both together. My runs are a perfect example of this. I have a calendar on my office door - a list of runs I have scheduled. I like the fact that I am doing something to achieve a goal. There is nothing wrong with doing…in fact it is invigorating. At the same time I have found that I am being while I run. It is my moment of complete presence. No thoughts of what needs to be done as a focus on my breath, the sounds, the now. Being does not have to be checking out and doing does not have to be missing out.
Are you ready to do… being?